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Anyone who knows me knows that I am not a man but when I had a discussion with someone they don't seem to comprehend it when I say, "Men who go to strip clubs turn me off." I am NOT a man LOL Well we were discussing men who go to strip clubs. Okay... first of all I am married and have been for a long time. I chose my husband and the other men in my life partly because they did not go to strip clubs. I know that some men will get upset at me for some odd reason LOL because they think that I am judging them. NO. It is about what I like and about what I DON'T like.

For example, I like masculine guys. Preferably with nice eyes. Wearing Dockers is a plus. (Yes... it's very conservative but I love it when my sweetie wears Dockers LOL) I like intelligence. Preferably someone who takes care of their mind and their body. A good sense of humor is a plus. What I do NOT like is men who go to strip clubs.

One of my friends told me that I go to strip clubs so I must turn myself off. Uh no... I AM NOT A MAN LOL

Also if the man has children I see it as a violation of the child albeit financially if and when a man gives a total stranger their money over giving it to their child or children. That is unattractive to me.

It is the rare man whom I want. Like my husband and all of the men I have ever been with. I know what I like... and I know what I DON'T like. As usual these men try to change my mind. Little do they know that they can't LOL Men who go to strip clubs are unattractive to me. Period. Then again I am married so it doesn't matter does it? *LOL*

Edit: I expect men to respect their loved ones. That is why I think and feel this way.


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Mar. 21st, 2006 04:34 pm (UTC)
So what are you trying to say?

Stop beating around the bush.

Just kidding. I like to go to the clubs...but for other reasons besides the women. I like to watch how the game is played. The woman taking the money and the men trying to go hom ewith them.
Mar. 21st, 2006 04:36 pm (UTC)
I know... you're excluded LOL Well if I remember you and your significant other would go together too so you are excluded. The main denominator of course is that it's okay with your significant other(s) which is pretty cool.
Mar. 21st, 2006 05:27 pm (UTC)
True I do not go to them often withour shelly.
Mar. 22nd, 2006 12:48 am (UTC)
Yeah I think that your case is different because it's mutual with you and your wife. I was just telling this person that as long as its respectful of their significant other/s and their child/ren then it's cool and they basically had a cow. I don't judge though... because my brothers go to strip clubs and so do I. Your wife "lets" you though which is different. I know some men who go without it being mutual with their SO.
Mar. 22nd, 2006 12:43 am (UTC)
eh, I've dated quite a few strippers/dancers...what does that say?
Mar. 22nd, 2006 12:46 am (UTC)
LOL That you like women? But my mom used to be a stripper so it's not like I have some thing against strippers. I just think that men should treat and respect their significant other/s and their child/ren right.
Mar. 22nd, 2006 12:48 am (UTC)
I completely agree with you, and vice versa!

men like hugs too!
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